4 Huge Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

When you're trying to fix a broken relationship, you can often feel like your efforts are one-sided.  As you struggle to do the right things to get back your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, the payout doesn't come until the end... when your ex is back in your arms.  Still, there are indicators that you can look for when your ex is starting to get interested in you again.  If he or she still loves you and has lingering emotional attachments to the relationship you once had, there will be definite signs your ex wants you back.

The signals your ex gives off showing that they still love you can range from subtle to very overt.  During the course of your break up, you'll be doing things that will make your ex want you again - and this will eventually have results.  Below is a list of top behaviors that will always indicate that your ex is once again thinking of dating you.

Your Ex Stays In Touch With You Beyond The Break Up

When a girlfriend or boyfriend dumps you for good, they'll walk away for good.  It's a simple but solid rule.  Many people buy into the illusion that your ex will still "want to be friends" with you after the break up, calling and texting and emailing you just to say what's up.  But if someone is truly finished dating you?  This is never the case.   Which is why whenever your ex keeps contact after he or she breaks up with you, it's a sure sign they're not finished with the relationship just yet.

Your Ex Is Jealous of Other People Around You

As your post-break up life goes on, you might go out with friends, family, and even other people you meet.  If you've got a jealous exgirlfriend or exboyfriend, it's a huge sign your ex wants you back.  No ex who's finished with you romantically will care whether or not you start seeing someone else, which is why jealousy is tipping their hand.  Look for it, and if you want your ex back?  You can even use it as a tool.

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Making Your Ex Girlfriend Jealous

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Making Your Boyfriend Jealous To Get Him Back.

Your Ex Shows Up To See You Without Calling

The unexpected pop-in from your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend is a sure sign they're missing you a lot.  Either they felt the need to come and see you face-to-face (which is good, because they miss you more than just a simple phone call) or they're stopping by to "check up" on what you're doing (see jealousy, above).  Either way, it's a red flag that they're not completely finished with the idea of having you as a potential mate.  Whatever you've been doing to make your ex want you back... it's working.

Your Ex Calls You While Drunk

This one's tricky, but kind of telling.  When your ex girlfriend or boyfriend has been drinking, their inhibitions are down.  This is often when their true feelings manifest themselves, and they'll do things like call you up.  Emotions and feelings that are suppressed while sober can more easily emerge.  Don't take everything your drunk ex says on the phone too seriously - after all, they're drunk - but if they're thinking about you while inebriated, it's a safe bet they're also thinking about you while sober.

Looking for signs that your ex wants you back is all well and good, but in order to really make them want you you'll first need a plan.  Only by adapting a step-by-step, methodical approach to winning back your ex can you be sure to maximize the chances of getting back together again.

To read up on the best tips and tricks for making your ex want you once again, check out: Opening Moves For Getting Your Ex Back.