Still, stopping and reversing your break up requires that you do something. You need to be proactive when it comes to winning someone back. So what do you do if you want to date your ex again? And the even more crucial question: what should you avoid doing? The biggest blunders when it comes to winning back someone's heart are listed below:
1. Contacting Your Ex Right After The Break Up
This is always the wrong thing to do. I don't care if you have something important to tell them, something you forgot to explain, or you just want to know when you can come pick up your stuff... let sleeping dogs lie, and leave your ex alone for the next few days and weeks. Nothing you can say right now will change your ex's mind, and your "stuff" isn't going anywhere.
2. Writing or Sending Cards and Notes to Your Ex
There's nothing worse than going through the heartbreaking process of breaking up with someone... and then having a 19-page letter stuck beneath your wiper blade the next morning. Whether you're a guy or a girl, the person who dumped you simply does not want it.
Actually, there's nothing wrong with putting your thoughts and feelings down on paper. Doing so will let you get a lot of things out of your system. But sending that letter off to your ex boyfriend or girlfriend is a big mistake. It's going to come back and haunt you later on, when you're making a real effort to get them back.
3. Making Promises You Can't Keep
The words leave your lips quickly and easily: "But I promise I can change". You shouldn't be making this promise to anyone. Changing the person who you are so you can make a relationship work is not only wrong, but it's unhealthy. It's also going to lead to another break up very quickly, even if your ex does take you back.
4. Making Ultimatums or Giving Your Ex Deadlines
"If you don't get back together with my by Friday... then it's OVER!" These words should never leave your mouth. Your ex broke up with you - you're in no position to be handing out deadlines or threatening your exboyfriend or exgirlfriend. You'll only look bad, and even worse, appear extremely desperate.
5. Stalking Your Ex or Driving Past His or Her Work/Home/School
These are just some of the biggest mistakes made when trying to get your ex back. Instead of concentrating your efforts on this destructive type of behavior, why not work on something positive?
There are lots of things you can do to make your ex want you again, located at the links below:
Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back
Five Things That Will Make Your Girlfriend Want You Again
So stay positive, stay strong, and GOOD LUCK!!!
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